We all have those friends (or perhaps it’s you) who feel they have to post every move they make throughout the day on social media from what they had for breakfast to their latest shopping excursions. What about those folks who constantly splatter photos of their adoring grandchildren, and forgetting how sinister pedophiles are always on the prowl. Let’s not leave out, the people who actually post their up-to-the-minute whereabouts, including vacations; they definitely need a clue! Publishing too many specific details is risky and can result in break-ins, monetary loss, or can put your safety at risk.
Folks need to realize, privacy is power!
Keeping matters private is difficult for many. Oversharing on social media allows cyber criminals to learn more about you and use that information against you. The oversharing of personal information can jeopardize your privacy, security, and can make it vulnerable to exploitation or misuse.
Silence might be golden, but TMI is pure gloom!
Be selective about who you invite to sit at your table. Your private life is your privacy which is something to cherish.
Are you guilty of oversharing?
Love life
Offering details about the particulars of your sexual adventures is not a good idea. The bedroom is a sacred place but the sanctity is broken when private bedroom going-ons are revealed to others. Reserve the pillow talk solely for the bedroom. Maintaining a relationship with a bit of secrecy seals the bond, making it even more exclusive.
And on the flip side, don’t complain about your partner to other people. Keep the gripes between you and your loved one. And if things become unbearable, don’t hesitate to seek couples counseling.
Therapy sessions
Don’t make the mistake of repeating the details of your therapy sessions with your friends and loved ones. Most people have a compilation of their own problems to work through, so constantly burdening others with your issues can be a sign of selfishness.
Income
Whether it’s your investments, pension, wages, or social security payments, put the brakes on openly discussing your personal finances. It’s plain old tacky! In fact, according to a survey conducted by Ally Bank, 70% of Americans think that it’s rude to talk about money. Conversations about your money matters is best left in the safety deposit box of your mind. Your finances are nobody’s business.
Life-changing plans
Whether you’re starting your own business, or going through an emotionally charged divorce, it is sometimes best to keep life-changing plans under your hat. It is sometimes best to just allow life to unfold. You wouldn’t want your plan to reach the ears of haters, and then have everything possibly fall by the wayside. Only share your next moves with those trusted folks in your life.
Family Problems
Sometimes family ties blind us to the real intentions of those we love.
Well, we all have family drama. It is important to stress that sometimes it’s better to not reveal a family secret especially, it if will cause undue, and unnecessary damage with no benefit. Not everyone should be privy to all the dynamics going on behind your home’s closed doors.
Your Belongings
Chatting excessively about the value of your belongings can easily be interpreted as bragging about your material possessions. Remember, while you are bragging about your possessions there are folks having to make due, sleeping in a cardboard box. Always choose modesty, it is a virtue that will never go out of style.
Anything Confidential
Don’t be a walking piñata, chock full of personal info, just waiting to be struck to spill it all! Spilled secrets typically result in judgmental faces and a few possible burnt bridges all along your path. Communication is important, but it’s equally crucial to be mindful of what information is appropriate to share and with whom. Remember if you’re unsure whether some personal info needs to be shared, it’s always best to err on the side of caution and keep it to yourself.